1Sam 26:2,7-9,12-13,22-23 1Cor 15:45-49 Lk 6:27-38
Once upon a
time in an Eastern city there was a riot. The people were hungry and blamed the
Caliph. When he rode through the streets of the city some of the citizens
mobbed him; and one man more desperate than the rest, caught him by the beard
but was saved by the guard. Later, order was restored, food distributed, and
the discontent subsided; but a shopkeeper named Hassan sought to curry favour
with the Caliph by telling him of the name of the man who had pulled him by the
beard. The man’s name was Khasim. The Caliph sent for him. Khasim arrived at
the palace trembling with fear. He threw himself at the Caliph’s feet, begging
for mercy. But the Caliph said: Get up Khasim. I did not send for you to punish
you, but to warn you that Hassan is a bad neighbour; for he it was who told me
that you were my chief assailant in the riot. Go in peace, and never trust a
tale-bearer!
We can trust
the enemies but not the betrayers or tale-bearers. Therefore, Benjamin Franklin
said: An open foe may prove a curse, but a pretended friend is worse. In
today’s gospel, Jesus advices us to love our enemies, which is a unique
teaching of Christ. Some say that Jesus is asking too much. Jesus throws before
us a teaching which is so challenging and not that easy to follow. His teaching
stands opposed to the usual human behaviours. He tells us to offer ourselves
again to those who offend us, to allow ourselves to be taken advantage by those
who strongly hurt us and still not to judge them.
As adviced by
Jesus in today’s gospel, to love the enemies and not to judge others are not
two different teachings which follows one after another, but one and the same teaching
which is closely interconnected. St Mother Teresa used to say: If you judge
people, you will have no time to love them. One of the main reasons we quickly
hate our enemies is because we judge them wrongly without giving sufficient
time to understand them and their background or situation. Therefore, persons
turn out to be enemies for us in our mindset and in our thinking pattern.
Jesus’ strong belief is that when a chance is given to them by way of an
expression of love, change could happen in their hearts towards a positive
understanding of us.
What does
Jesus mean when He commands us to love our enemies, and to do good to them? It
does not mean that we have to throw our arms around our enemy when we meet him
or her. It does not mean that we may not use legal means to get back what has
been unjustly taken from us. Rather, it means that much of what we consider the
work of an enemy is imagination, or that a little thoughtlessness is blown up
into a big insult. Further, even when we are positively sure of an evil
intention we must forgive. An example to it, we see in today’s first reading: Even
after being aware of the evil intention of Saul, David did not kill his enemy
Saul even when he had an opportunity for that. That was the great heart of
David to untouch the Lord’s anointed. David still valued the anointment in his
enemy Saul who was with evil intention.
There is a general
conception among many that human beings are hard hearted and stubborn, that
they lack softness in accepting those who have offended them. But God did not
create a stony heart which is unflexible. There are many stories which echo the
union of two hearts which have been ripped apart due to hurt feelings. One such
best story is found in the old testament, which is about the beautiful reunion
of Esau with his younger brother Jacob.
Esau was the
first born of Issac. He had the right for the first blessing from his father
Issac. According to the Israelites tradition, it was his birth right as the
first born. But taking advantage of his father’s physical blindness, cunningly,
his younger brother Jacob stole the first blessing which was the due of Esau.
Because of which, Jacob had to earn the vengeance of his elder brother Esau and
therefore, he escaped from his sight to a far away place. After many years, it
happened that Jacob had a wonderful chance to meet his elder brother Esau face
to face at Peniel. Though Jacob was afraid to meet his brother, Esau on seeing
his brother Jacob, ran to meet him, and embraced him, and fell on his neck and
kissed him, and they both wept (cf. Gen 33:4). During that lovable encounter,
Jacob said to Esau: truly to see your face is like seeing the face of God since
you have received me with such favour (Gen 33:10). This is the fruit of turning
our adversaries into allies. Turning foes into friends will manifest the face
of God in one’s own face index.
Jesus asks a
very pertinent question in the gospel: If you love those who love you, what
credit is that to you? … If you do good to those who do good to you, what
credit is that to you? (Lk 6:32,33). Anything that is repaid or done in return
is of no credit to us. To act extraordinary is only by giving and receive
nothing. Loving an enemy is of such a stand but difficult. Love can increase
only when hatred decreases.
Here are a
few ways we can follow the instruction of our Lord Jesus Christ:
- Pray for the person you think has offended you.
- Ask God to forgive that person like Jesus prayed
to the heavenly Father to forgive His persecutors on the cross: Father, forgive
them; for they do not know what they are doing (Lk 23:34).
- Ask God to help you forgive.
- Ask God to help you find some way to prove that
you have forgiven that person.
- Think of some way of communicating with your
so-called enemy – a smile, a greeting, a note, a phone call, even some big or
little act of kindness.
These are a
few little possible suggestions we can attempt to do. But more than these,
Jesus instruction invites us to go for a more radical and extraordinary way of
loving our enemy. Here is an incident from history to motivate us.
During the Revolutionary
War in America during the 18th century, Peter Miller was the pastor
of a little Baptist Church in Pennysylvania. Near the church lived a man who
constantly criticized and abused Miller and his congregation. At a particular
moment, this critic was found guilty of treason and sentenced to death by
General George Washington. As soon as the sentence was pronounced Peter Miller
set out on foot to appeal to General George Washington for his enemy’s life.
When Washington replied that he could not grant his appeal for his friend, Miller
exclaimed: My friend! Why, he is the worst enemy I have. “What, you have walked
sixty miles to save the life of an enemy? That puts the matter in a different
light. Pardon is granted” declared Washington. Pardon in hand, Miller hurried
to the place of execution, fifteen miles away. He arrived just as the traitor
was being led to the scaffold. Noticing Miller, the condemned man shouted: There
is old Peter Miller. He came to get his revenge by seeing me hanged. Miller
stepped forward and gave him his pardon, signed by Washington. As Jesus
desired, there are many Peter Millers in the human history. Now the question to
you is: Are you one of them?