Saturday 23 February 2019

7th Ordinary Sunday (Cycle C)

1Sam 26:2,7-9,12-13,22-23            1Cor 15:45-49            Lk 6:27-38

Once upon a time in an Eastern city there was a riot. The people were hungry and blamed the Caliph. When he rode through the streets of the city some of the citizens mobbed him; and one man more desperate than the rest, caught him by the beard but was saved by the guard. Later, order was restored, food distributed, and the discontent subsided; but a shopkeeper named Hassan sought to curry favour with the Caliph by telling him of the name of the man who had pulled him by the beard. The man’s name was Khasim. The Caliph sent for him. Khasim arrived at the palace trembling with fear. He threw himself at the Caliph’s feet, begging for mercy. But the Caliph said: Get up Khasim. I did not send for you to punish you, but to warn you that Hassan is a bad neighbour; for he it was who told me that you were my chief assailant in the riot. Go in peace, and never trust a tale-bearer!

We can trust the enemies but not the betrayers or tale-bearers. Therefore, Benjamin Franklin said: An open foe may prove a curse, but a pretended friend is worse. In today’s gospel, Jesus advices us to love our enemies, which is a unique teaching of Christ. Some say that Jesus is asking too much. Jesus throws before us a teaching which is so challenging and not that easy to follow. His teaching stands opposed to the usual human behaviours. He tells us to offer ourselves again to those who offend us, to allow ourselves to be taken advantage by those who strongly hurt us and still not to judge them.

As adviced by Jesus in today’s gospel, to love the enemies and not to judge others are not two different teachings which follows one after another, but one and the same teaching which is closely interconnected. St Mother Teresa used to say: If you judge people, you will have no time to love them. One of the main reasons we quickly hate our enemies is because we judge them wrongly without giving sufficient time to understand them and their background or situation. Therefore, persons turn out to be enemies for us in our mindset and in our thinking pattern. Jesus’ strong belief is that when a chance is given to them by way of an expression of love, change could happen in their hearts towards a positive understanding of us.

What does Jesus mean when He commands us to love our enemies, and to do good to them? It does not mean that we have to throw our arms around our enemy when we meet him or her. It does not mean that we may not use legal means to get back what has been unjustly taken from us. Rather, it means that much of what we consider the work of an enemy is imagination, or that a little thoughtlessness is blown up into a big insult. Further, even when we are positively sure of an evil intention we must forgive. An example to it, we see in today’s first reading: Even after being aware of the evil intention of Saul, David did not kill his enemy Saul even when he had an opportunity for that. That was the great heart of David to untouch the Lord’s anointed. David still valued the anointment in his enemy Saul who was with evil intention.

There is a general conception among many that human beings are hard hearted and stubborn, that they lack softness in accepting those who have offended them. But God did not create a stony heart which is unflexible. There are many stories which echo the union of two hearts which have been ripped apart due to hurt feelings. One such best story is found in the old testament, which is about the beautiful reunion of Esau with his younger brother Jacob.

Esau was the first born of Issac. He had the right for the first blessing from his father Issac. According to the Israelites tradition, it was his birth right as the first born. But taking advantage of his father’s physical blindness, cunningly, his younger brother Jacob stole the first blessing which was the due of Esau. Because of which, Jacob had to earn the vengeance of his elder brother Esau and therefore, he escaped from his sight to a far away place. After many years, it happened that Jacob had a wonderful chance to meet his elder brother Esau face to face at Peniel. Though Jacob was afraid to meet his brother, Esau on seeing his brother Jacob, ran to meet him, and embraced him, and fell on his neck and kissed him, and they both wept (cf. Gen 33:4). During that lovable encounter, Jacob said to Esau: truly to see your face is like seeing the face of God since you have received me with such favour (Gen 33:10). This is the fruit of turning our adversaries into allies. Turning foes into friends will manifest the face of God in one’s own face index.

Jesus asks a very pertinent question in the gospel: If you love those who love you, what credit is that to you? … If you do good to those who do good to you, what credit is that to you? (Lk 6:32,33). Anything that is repaid or done in return is of no credit to us. To act extraordinary is only by giving and receive nothing. Loving an enemy is of such a stand but difficult. Love can increase only when hatred decreases.

Here are a few ways we can follow the instruction of our Lord Jesus Christ: 
- Pray for the person you think has offended you.
- Ask God to forgive that person like Jesus prayed to the heavenly Father to forgive His persecutors on the cross: Father, forgive them; for they do not know what they are doing (Lk 23:34).
- Ask God to help you forgive.
- Ask God to help you find some way to prove that you have forgiven that person.
- Think of some way of communicating with your so-called enemy – a smile, a greeting, a note, a phone call, even some big or little act of kindness.
These are a few little possible suggestions we can attempt to do. But more than these, Jesus instruction invites us to go for a more radical and extraordinary way of loving our enemy. Here is an incident from history to motivate us.

During the Revolutionary War in America during the 18th century, Peter Miller was the pastor of a little Baptist Church in Pennysylvania. Near the church lived a man who constantly criticized and abused Miller and his congregation. At a particular moment, this critic was found guilty of treason and sentenced to death by General George Washington. As soon as the sentence was pronounced Peter Miller set out on foot to appeal to General George Washington for his enemy’s life. When Washington replied that he could not grant his appeal for his friend, Miller exclaimed: My friend! Why, he is the worst enemy I have. “What, you have walked sixty miles to save the life of an enemy? That puts the matter in a different light. Pardon is granted” declared Washington. Pardon in hand, Miller hurried to the place of execution, fifteen miles away. He arrived just as the traitor was being led to the scaffold. Noticing Miller, the condemned man shouted: There is old Peter Miller. He came to get his revenge by seeing me hanged. Miller stepped forward and gave him his pardon, signed by Washington. As Jesus desired, there are many Peter Millers in the human history. Now the question to you is: Are you one of them?

3 comments:

  1. Talebearers, betrayers and true friends are all 3 different categories Fr! A classic talebearer is Narad in Mahabharat who carries tales to two opposing camps to get benefits from both ends. Betrayers are those who pretend to be your sincere friend to get mostly the most intimate secrets (especially your weaknesses) from you, and store them for future use when they have a disagreement with you or for their own selfish interests like Judas in the Bible. Sirach 27 v 16 clearly says " whoever betrays secrets destroys confidence and will never find a congenial friend". As for sincere friends who are rare jewels in today's world, these are those who stand by you in good and bad times and never let you down even at the cost of their own reputation or lives. This is what Jesus said in Jn 15 v 16: "No one has greater love than this, to lay down one's life for one's friends".These may argue or fight with you but will suffer in silence your insults and humiliations, share with you in your joys and sorrows, make untold, painful sacrifices for you while accepting both your strengths and weaknesses.They will never let you down in front of another or take sides against you with another but will in private correct you when you are wrong. The Book of Sirach 6 v 7-12 gives deep insights about friendships true and false.Sirach 6 v 12 specifically says "true friends are a sturdy shelter, whoever finds one has found a treasure". As for forgiving and judging others, true that we are to forgive the other no matter how undeserving the other maybe. While we should not judge others we should not also close our eyes to glaring truths that experience teaches us over and over again about the other but should take caution, for this is Wisdom! And neither should anyone take for granted any acts of kindness as a sign of forgiveness or such acts may just stop!

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  3. I forgot to add a couple of things Fr after reading your reflections. Often the lines that demarcate talebearers and betrayers fade causing overlaps but true friends stand alone and apart from the mixed category.
    I have a very real and quite funny experience of a recent act of kindness on my part to show my forgivenes too a person who from the day I got involved in my church more than 18 months ago, declared war on me. The sufferings inflicted by the concerned were endless and very damaging till date...Trying to be a true imitator of Christ, I forgave,forgave and forgave! Peace never lasts with the other for more than 2 days by the way Fr! Hearing that the person was attached to Padre Pio, I lent the person my relic of Padre Pio and the person asked me to part with it which I could not! That was reason enough to start the next round of malicious attacks on me. Again I forgave, made excuses...in vain. Worse sufferings were inflicted on me.....It took all my physical, mental and spritual strength to decide to attempt reconciliation once again, this time before Christmas 2018. I reached out in peace with greeting which was smilingly accepted by the person.The next day the person sat next to me in the church during a short time of prayer. Just when I thought relief has come to my long period of suffering, the very next day the person glared at me and started to avoid me, watch my movements, who I talk to....! Till today I do not even know what I am supposed to have done or not done! This is why I metioned above that acts of kindness in reconciliation should not be taken for granted. It's no wonder that Jesus said "Never throw pearls before swines"!

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